{"id":478,"date":"2012-07-16T11:14:53","date_gmt":"2012-07-16T11:14:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/darylilbury.com\/?p=478"},"modified":"2017-06-12T05:14:04","modified_gmt":"2017-06-12T05:14:04","slug":"hes-just-not-that-into-psychology","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darylilbury.com\/?p=478","title":{"rendered":"He&#8217;s just not that into psychology"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-341 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/darylilbury.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/news-tribune.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"166\" \/>Abstract: Psychology, it seems, has been hijacked by TV writers of female angst&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it says something about the male human condition that when I die I want to do so in a blaze of glory, saving a toddler from an oncoming train, wrestling a Great White shark, or attempting to defuse a bomb with nothing but a pair of tweezers and nerves of steel. I didn&#8217;t think it would be clutching my chest whilst crouched next to the psychology section in Exclusive Books. But it seems I have the female human condition to thank for that.<\/p>\n<p>When I left school I chose to study clinical psychology because it sounded cool. It was also, I believed at the time, a great place to meet girls. Most of my schoolmates had chosen to study science or engineering, and I certainly didn&#8217;t fancy my university career attending classes packed to the rafters with more testosterone. I also have to admit that before I started, I had no real knowledge of what psychology was; I just thought it was something to do with what went on the head.<\/p>\n<p>The first lesson&#8217;s lecturer put me on track, &#8220;Psychology is the scientific study of the human mind, and, especially human behaviour.&#8221; It was an area of study grounded in scientific method. I realised at that stage it was something serious; and I was right. From that moment on I was immersed in scientific models of the various components of psychology, research methodology, neuroscience, and, eventually, into my main area of interest &#8211; clinical assessment and therapy.<\/p>\n<p>It has served me well in my career as a broadcaster, writer and, more lately, science journalist; that is until about two weeks ago.<\/p>\n<p>I was ambling through a local Exclusive Books, relishing the calm embrace of an environment of quiet contemplation and literary knowledge, when I came across the psychology section. I bent down to examine some of the books, and was suddenly gripped with utter shock and disbelief. There, displayed quite prominently, were copies of &#8216;The Secret&#8217; &#8211; the highly successful work of pure fiction from the imagination of Rhonda Byrne &#8211; the producer of a particularly trivial Australian reality TV series called &#8216;Marry Me&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t need to mentally question why it was there &#8211; under &#8216;Psychology&#8217;; the stabbing pains in my chest, the feeling of numbness in my left arm, and the strange giddy sensation that washed over me were doing that for me. Somehow I managed to stumble out of the shop, find a chair and sit down. After composing myself I decided that when I felt up to it I would return and interview the staff.<\/p>\n<p>After a while, logical deduction reasoned that no knowledgeable person would ever place such fiction under anything remotely science-based, and that it was either a simple mistake or the actions of a radical &#8216;new thought&#8217; activist, attempting to give merit to pseudoscience. It certainly couldn&#8217;t be the policy of a reputable bookseller.<\/p>\n<p>Or so I thought. This week I ventured into a different Exclusive Books and went to their &#8216;Psychology&#8217; section; and what I found both perturbed and astounded me. I&#8217;ll present some of the titles, and let you be the judge of whether or not they fall under the discipline of scientific study.<\/p>\n<p>Searching just the first half of the alphabetised stacking, I found the following: &#8216;Why Men Love Bitches&#8217; by Sherry Argov; &#8216;Doormat Nor Diva Be&#8217;, by Annie Ashdown; &#8216;He&#8217;s Just Not That Into You&#8217;, by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo; &#8216;First Catch Your Husband&#8217;, by Sarah Bridge; &#8216;French Women Don&#8217;t Sleep Alone&#8217;, by Jamie Cat Callan; &#8216;Toxic Men&#8217;, by Lillian Glass; &#8216;Finding Mr Right&#8217;, by Humfrey Hunter; and &#8216;Backwards in High Heels&#8217;, by Tania Kindersley and Sarah Vine. I stopped after &#8216;K&#8217; because my chest started tightening again.<\/p>\n<p>In case you&#8217;re wondering, not one of the authors is a psychologist. Neither is there amongst them a single science journalist specialising in psychology. Most of them are writers. In fact, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo were writers on the hit US romantic comedy TV series &#8216;Sex and the City&#8217;. Of those who aren&#8217;t professional writers, Lillian Glass is a self-proclaimed &#8216;body language expert&#8217;, and Annie Ashdown is something called a &#8216;life coach&#8217;; either way, certainly not qualified to speak on a respected discipline grounded in scientific theory.<\/p>\n<p>I can imagine the argument that the titles be considered &#8216;psychology&#8217; is to do with that they focus on what, apparently, dominates the female mind. It&#8217;s a dubious connection at best. If that is the logic then surely books on cannibalism should be catalogued under &#8216;Cookery&#8217;; books on mining should be under &#8216;Gardening&#8217;, because, after all, digging is involved; those interested in whether a Virgo should marry a Sagittarian, should search &#8216;Astronomy&#8217;; and if I want to know more about the characters of gnomes and fairies, I should look under &#8216;Biographies&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>There is no denying that such books have value for those interested in the challenges and vagaries of human relationships, and perhaps that&#8217;s what they should be catalogued under &#8211; &#8216;Relationships&#8217;; but certainly not &#8216;Psychology&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The study of psychology, like biology and physiology, is a science; and as a section in a leading bookstore should, therefore, be concerned solely with reference works on matters such as cognitive development, psychoanalysis, behaviour disorders, and social psychology; as well as biographies of some of the greatest minds in the field, such as Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung and Hans Eysenck.<\/p>\n<p>It should certainly not be a repository of the highly profitable imaginations of TV writers capitalising on a created and fomented female angst around issues of how to get a man into bed and make him love you.<\/p>\n<p>Originally published in the <em>Sunday Tribune<\/em>, 15 July 2012<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Abstract: Psychology, it seems, has been hijacked by TV writers of female angst&#8230; 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